5 Tips in Dealing With a Shy Guy – Dating Tips for Women

images (15)Guys should pursue women. That is the natural order but what if the guy is so shy? Some women find themselves liking a shy guy and end up so frustrated because they keep waiting for him to do the first move. Dealing with a shy guy could be a challenge and you need to have the guts to make the first move, at least until he gets comfortable around you because sometimes all a guy needs is a girl who can help him overcome his shyness. Are you dealing with a shy guy? Here are some helpful tips.

Do not take his shyness personally. A guy’s shyness has nothing to do with you. A shy guy is naturally uncomfortable around women so do not think that he’s uncomfortable only with you and do not think that something is wrong with you. Shyness is just part of his nature but it has nothing to do with his feelings towards you. Dealing with a shy guy can be very difficult if you will start taking it personally and will start thinking something is wrong with you.


Rebound Love Is Not For the Broken Heart

images (14)Obliterated beyond recognition, that is the status of your heart.

You are currently broken and is in dire need of a cure. Don’t rush things, you are obviously not ready to enter into a new relationship. You will learn to move on soon, but before that happens, focus on healing yourself. You are still very vulnerable. Pretty soon, you will also become desperate. You’ll be hopeless to find a rebound love to recover from the affection you have lost.

To love another after a failed relationship is not wrong. It only becomes inappropriate when you enter into it even though you are completely aware that you have not yet moved on. This is absolutely unfair to the other person. You’ll be toying with his emotions.

Here are a few reasons why rebound love is definitely not for you.

You won’t let him love you. Being in a new relationship does not guarantee your recovery from the past. This will bring you to continue reminiscing of your Ex and worst is, you might even compare them. You will not see the current one as a ‘real’ person. He

Avoiding Dating Disasters The Second Time Around

download (58)After escaping my abusive marriage, it was quite some time before I could begin to see men with any measure of objectivity, for during the craziness that came with divorcing my abuser, I arrived at the convenient conclusion that all men were scum. My new mantra was clear and simple, and it felt good to finally embrace what felt like truth.

Having two sons, though, I knew they need not be destined for such a fate, and after more than two years of intense counseling, there finally came a moment when the high stone wall of disillusionment began to weaken, giving way to the remotest possibility of genuine relationship, when a flicker of hope began to warm my wounded, distrusting heart.

But reentering the dating world is not an easy thing after coming out of a relationship based on the lowest common denominators. I was admittedly terrified at the possibility of making another life-altering mistake that would affect not only me but my children. I didn’t ever want to play the fool once again or spend even one more night crying myself to sleep.


How To Dress Perfectly on That First Date

images (13)Every Time I have dinner and catch-up with my friends, I find myself enjoying the conquests of my single friends and the ‘fun’ they had with their erratic partners. I asked myself whether I am willing to give up a decade worth of a committed relationship for single blessedness and opportunity for boyfriend hopping. Do I love being in a relationship rather be single or have casual boyfriends? Here are my two cents.


My partner and I were good friends back in high school. One day, we just found ourselves ‘dating’. Since we were in high school, it took us years before we could go on proper dates. But, our high school dates were as fancy as it could get. He wasn’t my boyfriend just yet. But, I realize that his antics are far more elaborate before than our date nights now. He admitted that those were to impress me. Does he not want to impress me now? Then I realized that I am as guilty.

When we were five years into the relationship, I knew why I enjoy being in a relationship. We have

Relationship Mistakes Guys Make And Possible Solutions

download (60)When you are attracted to a lady, you should not make a fool of yourself if you are not ready for a real intimate connection. Getting involved with a lady for the wrong reasons brings disappointment, pains and unrest. You should look out for the right reasons and work on these reasons to stay in love and be happy.

Dating someone because you think she will be sexually appealing is wrong. A struggle not true to you, is wrong to be part of that struggle. Sexual act does not add value to you. It takes away your self-esteem especially when you are not true to yourself. She might look dashing, all equip for a sexual connection but it is wrong reasoning to want to tangle with her.

You should not get intimate with her because of her high social class or personality. I have observed that guys from humble background often partake in this act in order to gain some influential and financial advantages.

You should work out better ways for yourself to feel useful and not rely on other’s advantages. It makes people think little

Weird Things Romantic Couples Do

download (59)Love is such a wonderful thing and it lets you do silly things. And nothing is crazier than doing weird stuff with the significant other. These things are perfectly normal that even other couples are doing them as well.

So, here are some of the weird things that couples do, whether they be in public or in the comforts of their beds.

Have Sweet Pet Names

From babe to baby to honey cakes, name it and you have a list of sweets to call your bae. Yes, those people in a relationship have a way with pet names. This especially comes out when you need something from each other or when you want some sexy action. But, couples often have pet names for their partner, which others may find corny. What adult called another “sweet boo”? Well, those people who are so in love that you see hearts in their eyes.

Have Farting Parties

A friend once told me that when you can when both of you can fart in front of the other, you have reached a certain level of comfort. This will show how close you

Tips to Be More Approachable to Guys

download (56)To succeed in meeting and dating men, it is important to be more approachable to guys. If men will find you hard to approach, they might just walk away even if you seem interesting. Do not let the chance of meeting someone just pass you by, here are some tips to be more approachable to men.

Dress well and always look good. Most guys can’t resist to approach women who look good. It doesn’t take long for a guy to scan the crowd in a room to recognize the woman who is worth approaching. While most women tend to fall into fashion hypes, tend to dress alike and try to look sexy, setting yourself apart from these women by learning how to dress well and create your own sense of style can help you stand out. Do not try to look sexy but focus on how to flatter your best physical features by choosing the right clothes. Remember that you don’t have to reveal too much if you do not want to send the wrong message and get the attention of men who just

Busting Myths About Being in a Relationship

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Time for yourself is as important as the time for your significant other

You would think that being in a relationship will require spending a lot of time with your partner. But, personal time is still of great value. I sometimes lie to my boyfriend that I am asleep when in fact I am reading the latest book by my favorite author. Don’t get me wrong here. I love our times together, but I also give importance to the person I am outside of the relationship. How do I balance that? It is just a matter of telling him that I need time to fawn over my books and TV series. He will understand you, trust me.

When you are not in a relationship, your time is yours alone. Being in a relationship requires that you will have time for your significant other as well as for yourself. So if personal time is important, why do I still want to be committed to somebody? The thing I love about it is that you could get meaningful and valuable time both ways. You get to

5 Ways a Dating Relationship Can Cause Women Heartbreak

download (57)Heartbreak in a dating relationship can be a very painful thing.

It can cause you to act differently and it can push you to do and say things you normally wouldn’t. It can also cause you to forget and neglect the things that are most important to you, such as family, work, and ultimately your destiny.

Heartbreak can cause you to completely change, and lose hope of ever having a good relationship again.

While I think it’s important to take a break from dating if you’ve recently experienced heartbreak, I do think it’s possible to love again in the future.

I can say this with 100% confidence because I’ve had my heart broken numerous times; but when I took a break from relationships and learned to understand who I was, I found love and I have been married for over 16 years to the same man!

While we all will probably face heartbreak at some point in our lives, there are some things that you can beware of when dating. Below you will find 5 ways a relationship can cause you heartbreak.

If you can identify them then

Why Don’t You Give Her Flowers Today and Everyday?

download (55)Do not wait for another chance. Seize the day.

The future is something that can’t be predicted. You may only prepare for it through acting on the present. What you sow today in your life, you will reap tomorrow. A constant effort of making her feel loved will convey how much she means to you. Actions do speak louder than words. But, more often, those repeated gestures are what contour the character of the person. For instance, if you say that you will cherish her forever but you constantly hurt her, then you are dishonest. You are contradicting all your spoken promises. This will make your loved one doubt your intentions. She will think that you are a person without substance. This article does not intend to form judgments. It’s acknowledging the fact that it’s about time that you let your actions speak for yourself.

Save your arguments. Here are 3 reasons why you should send her flowers daily:

  1. Why not make her feel special every day?

Okay, it might sound a bit too farfetched but girls love surprises. What more if you do it every day?

Tips to Avoid Being Friendzoned by a Girl

images (10)You wish to have a relationship with a girl you like but eventually you got friendzoned. It can be really frustrating when you are interested in a romantic relationship with a girl but eventually she wants you to just be friends. So how to avoid being friendzoned?

Be more mindful in picking your match. Being friendzoned sometimes lies on picking the wrong match. If you keep picking the girl not matched or not right for you, it is more likely that you’ll be stuck on being friendzoned. There are signs and body languages when women are interested in you. You must know how to read those signs to know if she’s into you. It is best to pick a woman who is more interested in you from the start to avoid being friendzoned.

Learn to be more attractive. Sometimes men are friendzoned because they are not attractive enough to the opposite sex. The good thing is that attractiveness is not an inborn trait, you can learn how to be more attractive physically and personality wise. By increasing the level of your attractiveness, you can avoid

Perks of Dating a Person With a Green Thumb

download (54)Good mannered, clean, understanding, compassionate, religious, tall, handsome, rich and the list of what our ideal guy goes on forever that our mom’s grocery list pales in comparison. We have this treasured list of qualities we want in a partner. What we leave out is for the person to ‘have a green thumb’ or who knows how to garden.

We ask why not when these people can give you these perks.

Free fresh flowers

Green thumbs are very good gardeners who are capable of growing even rarest plants. If you are dating one, more often than not, they have many flowering plants in their gardens. You can always use you bae card to pick the beautiful blossoms to decorate your home with. This will give life to your boring room or sad study space. The best thing about your boyfriend or girlfriend being a green thumb is that these beautiful flowers are free. Imagine the how much you will play florists with a bunch of cut flowers!

House smells fragrant all day

As you are free to pick blossoms from their garden, you can always choose those flowers

What Women Secretly (or Openly) Love About Their Men

download (53)Calm yourselves down! This is not about women being submissive nor deprecating women’s capabilities. This is you celebrating another of God’s wonderful creatures, the male species. Let’s look at some of the things we secretly or openly love about the men in our lives.

Women can depend on them

Sure, women are strong and independent and we want to be treated with equality, yet we also enjoy that we have a man we can depend on. There are those times we are clueless and scared to do things. Our men came as the ‘knight in shining armor,’ who don’t really save us, but held our hands as we go through life’s difficulties. It is okay to admit our vulnerability to the men whom we trust.


They have this innate thing of being protective of you. Can you remember the times you swoon so hard to men to take care of their sisters? You suddenly see them having children with you, right? We are completely capable of looking after ourselves that we find it sweet if others exert time and effort to show they care. This is

Learn These Facts To Impress Russian Women

download (51)James Bond did it and now you too could be dating Russian women. The planet is interconnected through the webs of social networks and multilingual meeting platforms. You can also encounter Anna Kournikova’s female compatriots in your daily life as in our time people migrate internationally more than ever. Beautiful and fashionable, these lovely ladies attract looks wherever they go.

So, how do you make a great impression on a Russian woman? Is there anything specific you need to know? Discover simple tips for dating Russian girls and you may score some extra points with your favorite.

10 tips to impress Russian women

1. Appearances matter. All girls pay attention to the way you look but Russian females are even more particular about a man’s exterior. Fashion and beauty are the two drivers, which girls from Russia cannot escape due to their cultural heritage. How tidy, clean, and trendy you present yourself is more important than your actual physical attributes. Of course, being good looking doesn’t hurt but it’s not compulsory. Neatness and style, on the other hand, are essential to score a date. If you

Romantic Home Dates When You Are Both Busy

download (50)Relationships are not as happy as the montage of sweet and endearing moments you saw in movies. Most of the time is spent on work or school that you only spend so little time together. Yes, that is the reality of this life. But, the relationship doesn’t have to be boring and monotonous. Here are romantic date night ideas you may prepare at home if you are the busy bee couple.

Prepare their favorite food

Create a banquet of their favorite food. You can choose two courses with appetizer and dessert. For the years of being were together, you definitely learn a thing or two of their favorite things. So, choose one or two that will appeal to the taste buds of your partner. You can top it off with a fancy wine from the liquor store a few blocks from home. Finish this off through serving it in a cheesy restaurant-styled table arrangement. Can you imagine the fun (or disaster) while making this surprise dinner?

Recreate the first date

Step-up the surprise by recreating your first date. You can wear that shirt or dress you wore

Violence in Our Society Is the Fruit of A Planted Seed Called Divorce

download (49)The rate of divorce is on the increase in our society. As homes break up, children lose the benefit of resident father or mother. The remaining parent, who usually must work, has less time and energy to devote to active growing children who are going through trauma as a result of divorce. Taking a close look around such kind of children, one would discover that there is a general disorder and lack of discipline among them.

Children need love and personal attention, but many are not receiving it in the quantities they should have. They need protection from this evil world; but they are exposed to doses of sex, violent and profanity. They see it on television, hear it on the radio and observe it in the lives of adults who have abandoned the traditional values which were once commonly held even by non-Christians.

These children are inheritance from God. Today, more than ever before, they need the attention, love and help of concern Christians and Ministers who understand their deepest needs and who want to help these boys and girls experience the quality of

Decoded (She Really Meant What She Said)

download (52)Women are complicated creatures. Women sometimes don’t understand other women, and they are of the same species. How much more difficult it could be for men to understand women then?

Let me help you decode some mind-boggling statements women often say.


This may mean Yes and No.

The key to knowing what she said may be hidden below the deepest parts of the ocean. But, take clues from past conversations. Pay attention to instances when she has said yes, but what she really means was no.


“Okay, okay” and “No, it’s not okay.”

No, it is not the sweet “Okay” shared between Augustus Waters and Hazel Grace. As decisive as she is, she may say okay when it is not. Like her Yes, you should look into her eyes and see for yourself if it really means it.

“It’s fine.”

No, it is not, most of the times.

There are times when she may be under the weather, and she doesn’t want to talk about what made her upset. So she says that it is fine. What it really means is that it is not fine. This is especially true when

How to Make Sure Your Divorce Is Final

download (48)There are many things you don’t think of while you are married. Once you get divorced, there are lots of people you need to get in touch with. Subscriptions need to be moved, electricity needs to be moved over.

Your employer needs your new address, and in many countries public organizations also need to be informed.

One much less thought of thing is ending your financial relationship. Creditors need to be informed about who stays in the house, who takes over payments on the car etc. Furthermore, you need to inform shops with customer cards of the changed family situation. Your bank must stop all mutual activities. Some need to be cancelled, others need to be moved.

It is very important that you talk with one another during this process, as this eases the procedure for both of you. There may be things you want to keep in a much better way than just stopping them, and applying again. Given the fact that one of you will suffer a credit rating drop namely from changing your address, this could be eased quite a bit when you

The Huge Cost of Divorce

images (9)The costs involved with people getting divorced can be quite high. Some societies have huge apartment shortages due to the fact that people need two homes once a divorce is final. Furthermore, many face economic hardships due to having to sell common homes once they leave one another.

Many ask: “What should I do after a divorce?” The first answer is that you will survive. There may be hardships involved, but you will find a way. However, there is also a much bigger challenge facing all of us, and that is the attitude spread across society by therapists that you should always give your marriage a second chance. That is certainly true when things can be mended, but in this article our focus is upon the effects of divorce once two people have decided they can no longer live together.

Then, obviously, they should separate. Maybe some time apart from one another will make you both realize whether you miss one another, and that can’t be cured by any therapist. Therapy requires both parties involved to want to stay together. When that is not an

Through a Child’s Eyes

download (46)Coming from a young adult, divorce is not the best experience anyone can go through. For those who have gone through or are now experiencing divorce as a kid or a young adult, you are not alone in this. Divorce is a harsh word to some who have experienced it with their parents or family members, or who are going through it themselves. Dealing with divorce amongst siblings fighting, picking sides of parent(s) or families can get very tiring. Some think marriage can be happiness and last a lifetime. You have your ups and downs, and they keep you going with that one person and your family. Sadly, divorce has become common in the United States. According to the CDC, in 2011 the number of marriages where are 2,118,000, the rate of marriage was 6.8 per 1,000 total population, and the divorce rate was 3.6 per 1,000 total population. In the map of U.S. Divorce Rates of 2011, the rate are higher in the following cities; Panama, FL, Sierra Vista, AZ, and Charleston, WV, Medford, OR, Reno, NV. Even though social scientists have